Forgive And Let Go, Forget And Move On

Hey Guys, it's been quit sometime since i opened my heart and shared my thoughts with you.
Been busy living and having fun...

you know why ?
I think I found what they call inner peace. I would like to assume that I did.
Lately I managed to keep my mind free from any troubling thoughts and surprisingly I begin to laugh again.

when you surrender and shadow your hurt to sadness, anger and stress little by little you'll lose yourself.

from what I gone throw, I managed to regain my strength and beautiful soul by changing my pace and tried a few simple tricks...

as said : “The past has no power over the present moment.” ―Eckhart Tolle

Forgiveness is recognizing the reality that what has happened has already happened, and that there’s no point in allowing it to dominate the rest of your life. Forgiveness refreshingly cleans the slate and enables you to step forward.


You can forgive yourself, you can forgive others, and you can forgive even when you don’t know exactly who to forgive, because forgiveness is not about who is to blame or who is at fault. It is about letting go, completely and permanently within yourself.




Here are five unique ways to make this step possible:

• Stop trying for a while

Stop trying and start being.

When you see yourself as trying – to do something else or get somewhere else – you don’t interpret what you have and where you are as being good enough.  This perception of constantly trying makes living seem like an endless struggle.

There is great value within you right here, right now. Allow it to come out, willingly and without a struggle.

• Be the watcher of your thoughts and emotions

We need to simply notice our thoughts without getting caught up in them. You are ultimately the sole creator of your own feelings.
Think about these thoughts and emotions consciously, almost as if you were a bystander looking in.
Separate yourself from your mind’s thinking.

• Love

Yes, I may have fallen for my first crush but oh will it felt great. out of character if i may say. that's why it worked so fast or maybe not ...
The way beyond the pain from the past is not with vengeance, mockery, bullying or retaliation, but with present love.

Forgive the past, forgive yourself, forgive others, and love the present moment for what it’s worth. Loving is never easy, especially when times are tough, yet it is easily the most powerful and positively enduring action possible.

There is always love to give. Fill your heart with it and act in everyone’s best interest, especially your own.

• Seek positive revenge by living well

You know that’s negative thinking getting the best of you.  However, there is a way to seek revenge positively.
Forget about them.  Remember you. Working on a better you is more fulfilling than hanging on to contempt of others.
Let it all go and hold on to your growth and kindness instead.

• Let go of the need to forgive every mistake

There is an obvious shift in your heart and mind that happens when you go from feeling hurt and upset to peaceful and loving, but it’s not necessarily forgiveness that’s taking place, it’s just the realization that there was nothing to forgive in the first place.

Perfection doesn’t exist. Forgiveness is oftentimes the simple realization that there is nothing that actually needs to be forgiven. Your turn… Who would you like to forgive? What stressful burdens do you need to let go of and rise above?

XOXO

luka